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The Christmas season (and other holidays, to a lesser degree) leave millions of people blue, not joyful. Contributing factors include:
- Family members who live far away
- Memories of a loved one who has passed away
- Financial problems
- Fatigue and feelings of being overwhelmed by tasks and obligations associated with the holidays
- Idealistic expectations
Some ways to prevent the holiday blues include the following.
- Begin holiday preparations well in advance, to avoid becoming overwhelmed.
- Delegate chores like writing greeting cards or baking cookies to other members of the household.
- Don't drink alcohol if it makes you moody and depressed.
- Don't expect everything--food, decorations, family get-togethers--to be perfect for the holidays.
- Don't spend beyond your budget.
- If keeping old holiday traditions is painful, start new ones.
- If you expect to be alone for the holidays, don't wait to be invited somewhere; invite people over.
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